So the rumors are true, and I couldn’t be more dumbfound than I am as I write this. Don’t get me wrong. I’m glad that you feel as though you’ve found someone you can share your life with and you’re willing to make that commitment. That’s wonderful.
But I don’t get how you make such a major decision in less than 31 days of knowing someone. There are people who know more about Khloe from watching Kardashian reality television shows than you possibly could, although you could go back and watch the DVDs. But you’re committing yourself to her in marriage after a whirlwind courtship?
Lamar, you do realize that you took more time deciding whether or not to play the upcoming season alongside Dwyane Wade or Kobe Bryant this summer than you spent deciding to walk the plank with Khloe, right? You’ve gotta think that’s a little strange that you have a better feel for Kobe and Wade on the basketball court than you do for your bride-to-be in the house.
Now, I’m not writing this letter to chastise you or your decision, although I do think it’s insane…ly premature. I don’t want you pulling a Richard Jefferson because of me. And I don’t want you thinking it can’t work. Although, the statistics aren’t on your side.
I’m just wondering how it works: How do you decided in less than a month of dating someone that you want to be with that person forever, that you want to jump a broom with him or her?
I’ve had my share of situations with the opposite sex. And not once have I come to the conclusion that I could would marry someone in a 31-day period. Sure, I’ve noticed positive signs about a woman after a good conversation or two, moments where I’ve thought “she might make a good wife some day.” But never have I left a convo thinking “that’s the woman I’m going to marry in less than 31 days of knowing her because she completes me and I’ve gotta wed her before I leave for training camp.”
That just doesn’t seem right. But maybe it is. Who knows? Only time will tell for you and your bride-to-be, huh?
Although I’m certain I won’t marry someone I’ve known less than a year, I just want you to share with us how you know it’s right so soon in case this situation presents itself to anyone I know. There are millions upon millions of people out there looking for love, and you’ve found it in such a short time. Again, that’s great. I just want you to share that secret with the rest of us who happen to be looking for that spark you and Khloe have found.
I’m sure there are plenty of women who want to know how they can get 9 carats in less than a month. Maybe you should write a book about everything that’s happened over the last month. You and Khloe can lead them to the promised land. Who knows? Maybe you could outsell Steve Harvey and recoup what you spent on that ring … for someone you’ve known for less than a month.
Anyway, I hope Sunday is everything you’ve dreamt it to be.